Sammy's Daily Check In
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Ugh, that is so annoying - I hope you feel better and get your sense of taste back soon!
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I hope you have a quick recovery. I applaud you if you can manage three meals, but definitely right now it’s okay if you can’t!
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Hi Sammy, I hope you're feeling better! Treat yourself kindly, take things slow, and remember that your body is fighting as hard as it can to recover. I am sending you best wishes, through this magic we call the internet. WINhappy
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Thank you guys for all the encouragement. Today is my first day back at work, but I've had to wear a mask all day and it has been really hard to breathe. I have to wear a mask at home, too, so I'm just dying for air all the time.
In other news, at my doctor checkup yesterday, they weighed me. And my head about fell off. I weighed in at 224.6 lbs, or 101.88 kgs. I. Was. HORRIFIED. But instead of getting upset and crying about it, I felt a determination I have never felt before. Before I could do anything desperate or stupid, I made an emergency appt with my dietitian and we talked everything out. We have decided that for me, tracking makes the most sense. I'm a person who loves data and being able to see myself meet numerical goals. So for now, I'm tracking every day and aiming for under 1800 calories. Now, as a 5' 4" person, that's not going to take me very far, I will HAVE to reduce my calories over time, but at least I know it's not in a surplus. I see my dietitian again on Monday. I cannot allow my weight to get any higher. I am 2 points on the BMI away from morbid obesity. I literally need to lose 100 pounds. That is insanity. I cannot believe how far I've gone off road these past six years since I developed binge eating disorder.
I am also doing DBT therapy with my therapist for my eating disorder recovery. I WILL succeed. My only other choice is diabetes, heart disease, and metabolic disease. I cannot live with that. So I must change. It's my only option.
In other news, at my doctor checkup yesterday, they weighed me. And my head about fell off. I weighed in at 224.6 lbs, or 101.88 kgs. I. Was. HORRIFIED. But instead of getting upset and crying about it, I felt a determination I have never felt before. Before I could do anything desperate or stupid, I made an emergency appt with my dietitian and we talked everything out. We have decided that for me, tracking makes the most sense. I'm a person who loves data and being able to see myself meet numerical goals. So for now, I'm tracking every day and aiming for under 1800 calories. Now, as a 5' 4" person, that's not going to take me very far, I will HAVE to reduce my calories over time, but at least I know it's not in a surplus. I see my dietitian again on Monday. I cannot allow my weight to get any higher. I am 2 points on the BMI away from morbid obesity. I literally need to lose 100 pounds. That is insanity. I cannot believe how far I've gone off road these past six years since I developed binge eating disorder.
I am also doing DBT therapy with my therapist for my eating disorder recovery. I WILL succeed. My only other choice is diabetes, heart disease, and metabolic disease. I cannot live with that. So I must change. It's my only option.
~Turning into a normal eating, one gray day at a time. Attempting to eat 3 meals a day with 1 planned snack.
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Also, I am EXHAUSTED from the covid, so I haven't checked on everyone else's posts lately. I will try to catch up soon. Hoping y'all are all doing well.
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Aaaand after 2 days of tracking calories over 1800...I'm reminded why I can't do this longterm. When I last calorie counted seriously for 3 months straight and was VERY consistent, I then went nuts and gained thirty pounds. I think I panicked when I saw that number on the scale. I am reminded why my dietitian doesn't have me weigh myself anymore. All it does is freak me out. However, I KNOW people lose weight eating three meals a day. I've got to keep staying the course. Keep working on healing my relationship with food. I meet with K (my dietitian) on Monday and I will tell her that I am STILL deeply committed to the 3 meal structure and I'm not going to trade in something that has the potential to really heal me for something that will slowly drive me insane, likely lead me to snap, and then gain even more weight than I weigh now.
Sorry I went mildly crazy there for a few minutes. I'm in the 3 meals for the long haul.
Thank you to everyone for your encouragement about covid. I can't WAIT for my sense of smell to come back. I can't smell a THING.
Sorry I went mildly crazy there for a few minutes. I'm in the 3 meals for the long haul.
Thank you to everyone for your encouragement about covid. I can't WAIT for my sense of smell to come back. I can't smell a THING.
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I hope you will get your sense of smell and taste back soon, Sammy! That's what I hated about covid too. It makes you feel so miserable. I am sorry to hear the doctors checkup was such a bad experience. I am glad you will stop counting the calories, it's so not sustainable. It made me obsessive too. Hang in there, you are doing the best you can!
SW: 65.8 kg CW: 64.6 kg - GW: 59.9 kg
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Thank you so much, Ellis. I have definitely been so miserable. We're at Disney on Ice today and I have to wear a mask.Ellis wrote: ↑Sat Sep 27, 2025 1:45 pmI hope you will get your sense of smell and taste back soon, Sammy! That's what I hated about covid too. It makes you feel so miserable. I am sorry to hear the doctors checkup was such a bad experience. I am glad you will stop counting the calories, it's so not sustainable. It made me obsessive too. Hang in there, you are doing the best you can!

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B: 8:20am - overnight oats and blueberries + sugar free chocolate chips. (I ate about 75% of these)
S: 10:10am - spicy chicken biscuit + chicken mini + 1 nugget (Chick-fil-a with my family)
Event: My husband, daughter, mother-in-law and I all went to see Disney on Ice. It was so much fun! If I had known we were going to CFA, I wouldn't have had the overnight oats. Oh well.
L: 2:35pm - bowl of bison chili with beans, cheddar cheese shreds, red onion and French fries with garlic aoli
S: 10:10am - spicy chicken biscuit + chicken mini + 1 nugget (Chick-fil-a with my family)
Event: My husband, daughter, mother-in-law and I all went to see Disney on Ice. It was so much fun! If I had known we were going to CFA, I wouldn't have had the overnight oats. Oh well.
L: 2:35pm - bowl of bison chili with beans, cheddar cheese shreds, red onion and French fries with garlic aoli
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Disney on Ice sounds like so much fun! I’ve never tried Chick-fil-A before, but it’s fascinating to see how many food options there are in the US. Mr. Ellis watches American sports channels, and I actually enjoy watching the ads in between.
Like, fast food, fast food, Ozempic, fast food.. more meds.

SW: 65.8 kg CW: 64.6 kg - GW: 59.9 kg
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Hope you soon recover fully from COVID.
So sorry you had the shock re your weight. I agree sticking to the 3 meals is the sensible way forward for you.
I have had a difficult journey with food my whole life and it has taken a lot of work to get to where I am now. You will get there!
I read a lot of different books that helped my journey.
A book that opened my eyes was the fat fallacy by Dr Will Clower.
It will fit well with Nos if you are inclined to read it.
Jx
So sorry you had the shock re your weight. I agree sticking to the 3 meals is the sensible way forward for you.
I have had a difficult journey with food my whole life and it has taken a lot of work to get to where I am now. You will get there!
I read a lot of different books that helped my journey.
A book that opened my eyes was the fat fallacy by Dr Will Clower.
It will fit well with Nos if you are inclined to read it.
Jx
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Haha yep, most of our commerials are drugs and food. It's super toxic.Ellis wrote: ↑Sat Sep 27, 2025 8:36 pmDisney on Ice sounds like so much fun! I’ve never tried Chick-fil-A before, but it’s fascinating to see how many food options there are in the US. Mr. Ellis watches American sports channels, and I actually enjoy watching the ads in between.Like, fast food, fast food, Ozempic, fast food.. more meds.
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It was definitely a shock to the system. Next time I go to the doctor, I'm going to weigh backwards so I can't see the number. Nothing good comes from me knowing how much I weigh. Ever.Soprano wrote: ↑Sun Sep 28, 2025 6:05 amHope you soon recover fully from COVID.
So sorry you had the shock re your weight. I agree sticking to the 3 meals is the sensible way forward for you.
I have had a difficult journey with food my whole life and it has taken a lot of work to get to where I am now. You will get there!
I read a lot of different books that helped my journey.
A book that opened my eyes was the fat fallacy by Dr Will Clower.
It will fit well with Nos if you are inclined to read it.
Jx
~Turning into a normal eating, one gray day at a time. Attempting to eat 3 meals a day with 1 planned snack.
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S: 8:15am - 5 pieces dark chocolate
B: 9:15am - My five year old daughter and I made an apple coffee cake that we all ate as a family with coffee. It was delicious! I love cooking with my girl.
S: 12:39pm - 5 pieces dark chocolate
S: 1:00pm - bag of dill pickle chips
L: 2pm - a personal pepperoni pizza
S: apple chips, rice crisps, 6 PB crackers
D: drunken noodles with beef (made by my husband) + cornetto ice cream cone
S: 2 pieces of the apple coffee cake.
Today would have been an excessive S day if I were doing vanilla no s, but I'm not. So it was not a good day for me eating wise. I just ate and ate and ate. I'm so sad about my size right now. I've had to go up in size of clothes recently, which sucks. It makes me feel hopeless and like I'll be fat forever, so I might as well eat what I want, when I want. I know this isn't a helpful thought, but I do think it. I grazed all day. This is why I can't allow myself to snack. When I snack, bad things happen.
I think I'm going to try a mod: no sweets, seconds on N days. And on S days, sweets must be eaten with a meal, so I preserve my 3 Meals structure. I hope it helps! I feel like today was insane.
B: 9:15am - My five year old daughter and I made an apple coffee cake that we all ate as a family with coffee. It was delicious! I love cooking with my girl.
S: 12:39pm - 5 pieces dark chocolate
S: 1:00pm - bag of dill pickle chips
L: 2pm - a personal pepperoni pizza
S: apple chips, rice crisps, 6 PB crackers
D: drunken noodles with beef (made by my husband) + cornetto ice cream cone
S: 2 pieces of the apple coffee cake.
Today would have been an excessive S day if I were doing vanilla no s, but I'm not. So it was not a good day for me eating wise. I just ate and ate and ate. I'm so sad about my size right now. I've had to go up in size of clothes recently, which sucks. It makes me feel hopeless and like I'll be fat forever, so I might as well eat what I want, when I want. I know this isn't a helpful thought, but I do think it. I grazed all day. This is why I can't allow myself to snack. When I snack, bad things happen.
I think I'm going to try a mod: no sweets, seconds on N days. And on S days, sweets must be eaten with a meal, so I preserve my 3 Meals structure. I hope it helps! I feel like today was insane.
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I'm so sorry to hear you're struggling, Sammy...it sucks to feel so hopeless about being able to make progress. I have been there and I understand.
But it sounds like you gained some important information yesterday, and confirmation that the 3 meal structure is actually really helpful for you. Don't give up! This is all moving you forward even though it doesn't always feel like it.
But it sounds like you gained some important information yesterday, and confirmation that the 3 meal structure is actually really helpful for you. Don't give up! This is all moving you forward even though it doesn't always feel like it.
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Thank you for the encouragement, Amy! I am so sick and tired of being fat, but my meals are definitely still too large. I need to get them down to a plate and a bowl plus maybe a fruit.Amy3010 wrote: ↑Mon Sep 29, 2025 5:28 amI'm so sorry to hear you're struggling, Sammy...it sucks to feel so hopeless about being able to make progress. I have been there and I understand.
But it sounds like you gained some important information yesterday, and confirmation that the 3 meal structure is actually really helpful for you. Don't give up! This is all moving you forward even though it doesn't always feel like it.
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I spoke with my dietitian yesterday and we're going to continue with my three meals plus one optional snack plan. We're still striving for balanced plates and a dessert with every meal to avoid bingeing. In October, I'm going to track 4 things: 3 meals days, 3 meals + 1 snack days, 3 meals + 2 snacks days, and binges. I'm going to see how my eating looks in stark Xs. I've got to keep committing fully to recovery. And when I get knocked down by a bad eating decision or day, I am going to get right back up and keep swinging.
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B: overnight oats with blueberries and mini chocolate chips
L: 1/2 a buffalo bacon chicken wrap + sour cream and onion pringles + small bag dried apple chips + 2 reese's cups + diet soda
PS*: apple slices, bag of Harvest Cheddar Sun Chips, most of the second 1/2 of the buffalo wrap, mini bag gushers candy
D: 1/3 a Zaxby's Asian salad + veggie egg roll
*(ps - preplanned snack)
As part of my eating disorder recovery, I am reading "The DBT Solution for Emotional Eating" and man, it is blowing my mind! It is so good. I'm glad my therapist recommended it.
L: 1/2 a buffalo bacon chicken wrap + sour cream and onion pringles + small bag dried apple chips + 2 reese's cups + diet soda
PS*: apple slices, bag of Harvest Cheddar Sun Chips, most of the second 1/2 of the buffalo wrap, mini bag gushers candy
D: 1/3 a Zaxby's Asian salad + veggie egg roll
*(ps - preplanned snack)
As part of my eating disorder recovery, I am reading "The DBT Solution for Emotional Eating" and man, it is blowing my mind! It is so good. I'm glad my therapist recommended it.
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Keep working at it, Sammy, you'll get there. We're rooting for you. Best regards, WINhappy
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Thank you for the encouragement, WIN!!
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I am SO proud of yesterday. I know I'm still eating large portions, but our whole goal right now is to NOT BINGE and to NOT GO BACK TO DIETING. So it's okay. I've got to loosen up some if I'm going to recover. I can work on reducing portion size once I've got the habit down.
October 1
Waist: 45"
B: 9:30am (Work): 2 sausage, egg, and cheese burritos with hot picante sauce + hashbrown + small mocha frappe
L: 1:20pm (Work): overnight oats with blueberries + mini chocolate chips + mini bag cheezits (White cheddar) + mini bag dried apple chips (no sugar added) + a few bites rice crisps (bbq)
S: 3:20pm (Work): envy apple + 6 pieces peanut butter malt crackers + mini bag cheezits
D: 5:30pm (Home): Protein shake + pickles + cheezits + bell peppers
S: 7:00pm (Out with friends) - mint chocolate chip ice cream waffle cone
October 1
Waist: 45"
B: 9:30am (Work): 2 sausage, egg, and cheese burritos with hot picante sauce + hashbrown + small mocha frappe
L: 1:20pm (Work): overnight oats with blueberries + mini chocolate chips + mini bag cheezits (White cheddar) + mini bag dried apple chips (no sugar added) + a few bites rice crisps (bbq)
S: 3:20pm (Work): envy apple + 6 pieces peanut butter malt crackers + mini bag cheezits
D: 5:30pm (Home): Protein shake + pickles + cheezits + bell peppers
S: 7:00pm (Out with friends) - mint chocolate chip ice cream waffle cone
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So great to end a day feeling proud of how you did!
This is definitely a work in progress - you got this!

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Sammy, your two goals seem spot on and you're absolutely correct in that you can refine later. Keep up the great work! Best regards, WIN
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Thanks, friends!! I appreciate the support on this little community so much!!
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Haven't binged in a few days. I'm leveling off at 2 snacks per day in addition to 3 meals, trying to work down to 1 snack per day. I'll get there.
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Hi Sammy! I so very much relate to everything you are going through. Similarly, I weighed myself the other day and I was up a couple pounds and it just always sets me up to start going off the rails. I think I also started to do pretty well with the three meals, I begin to feel overconfident, and that always leads me into thinking I can make exceptions and then I end up right back where I started. And then I try calorie counting, which at certain times in my life has worked exceptionally well, but right now it is not the time. I just can’t get it to work. I snack all day. Ugh, kind of feels like I’m back at square one. But like you, I think I just need to forge ahead with the three meals because when it works, it works! I feel I should mention, though, that in my experience, you can eat a lot more than you think you can. You mentioned 1800 cal and that is actually not very much. Like at some point, I asked myself if I were to average out all my binges how many calories am I actually consuming?? What I did years ago was ask myself what amount can I live with and if I didn’t binge and stuck to that number, I would eventually just be that size. So I kind of ball parked at 2000 because that’s technically the average number but they say we eat a lot more than that. And I know you’re not going the calorie counting route, but I do tend to believe that if someone who binges like us just stuck to 2000 cal indefinitely without binging, we would whittle down to our natural size. I’m only 5’2 and I still somewhat stick to that. Anyways sorry for the long message, but I totally understand you. I need to read the book you mentioned too. Have a great weekend.
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Sinnie, I relate SO much to everything you wrote. Right now, I'm trying to stick to 3 Meals and 1 planned afternoon snack (if I feel I need it). It's what my dietitian wants me to do. I hope I can make it work. I really want to do the 3 Meals only for my weight, but I often binge in the afternoon when I get home from work. I'm still figuring out how to stop that. We both will succeed! I know we will. But man, eating disorder recovery is ALL gray and not black or white. It's hard as hell. But I am confident we can get over our issues.Sinnie wrote: ↑Sat Oct 04, 2025 1:07 pmHi Sammy! I so very much relate to everything you are going through. Similarly, I weighed myself the other day and I was up a couple pounds and it just always sets me up to start going off the rails. I think I also started to do pretty well with the three meals, I begin to feel overconfident, and that always leads me into thinking I can make exceptions and then I end up right back where I started. And then I try calorie counting, which at certain times in my life has worked exceptionally well, but right now it is not the time. I just can’t get it to work. I snack all day. Ugh, kind of feels like I’m back at square one. But like you, I think I just need to forge ahead with the three meals because when it works, it works! I feel I should mention, though, that in my experience, you can eat a lot more than you think you can. You mentioned 1800 cal and that is actually not very much. Like at some point, I asked myself if I were to average out all my binges how many calories am I actually consuming?? What I did years ago was ask myself what amount can I live with and if I didn’t binge and stuck to that number, I would eventually just be that size. So I kind of ball parked at 2000 because that’s technically the average number but they say we eat a lot more than that. And I know you’re not going the calorie counting route, but I do tend to believe that if someone who binges like us just stuck to 2000 cal indefinitely without binging, we would whittle down to our natural size. I’m only 5’2 and I still somewhat stick to that. Anyways sorry for the long message, but I totally understand you. I need to read the book you mentioned too. Have a great weekend.
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Today, we are going to a Football game with my mother in law and there will be some concession stand good.
B: 9:30am Homemade Pumpkin Monkey Bread I made with my daughter (I ate a bowl full). It was delicious. Happy to share the recipe if anyone is interested. It was messy but delicious.
L:
D:
B: 9:30am Homemade Pumpkin Monkey Bread I made with my daughter (I ate a bowl full). It was delicious. Happy to share the recipe if anyone is interested. It was messy but delicious.
L:
D:
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It's really great here, isn't it?Sammybunny711 wrote: ↑Fri Oct 03, 2025 1:51 amThanks, friends!! I appreciate the support on this little community so much!!

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Hi Sammy! I really relate to how seeing your weight can mess you up! I think when it comes to emotional eating, the framework of No S can be really helpful because it can show you how often you want to eat when you are not physically hungry. Then you can key into what you are feeling. My worst struggle binge time is when I get home from work, either before or after dinner these days.
That book sounds really interesting. I am going to check it out!
That book sounds really interesting. I am going to check it out!
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I struggle with after work as well! I often eat while cooking DINNER! I've got to stop, but it's so hard. I am having such a hard time right now.
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