Everyday Systems

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Thanks Linda and Auto, I think I might truly just be a bit naturally lazy. I don't think anything is necessarily wrong with that as long as you fulfill your responsibilities. Im a great employee and I work hard at everything I do, but my favorite thing to do is just lounge around. You know there are...

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I am only on episode 2 of Bridgerton! I haven't seen the sex scenes yet. I mean there was that first one... but I haven't seen much yet. I am interested to see what everyone is talking about. That is sweet about your husband being your best friend. I feel the same way about my husband. The other day...

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Glad you came out of your side effects ok! Sounds like you felt pretty sick. Thanks for letting us know what it was like for you.

I agree! I can't do the militant food group cutting that some of these fierce advocates of diet dogma recommend. Just another reason I am so grateful for No S!

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It is pretty funny! Im so grateful for my dogs during this stressful time. They really add lightness and comfort and sometimes entertainment.

Hope you are having a good Monday!

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Ok, that is what I was thinking. It is sad that this issue has been politicized. If it makes you feel any better, it sounds like the research leans towards kids not spreading it in schools. Wow! That is really exciting to have sweetpea her housing already! That is great, is she excited to move out?

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Don't feel guilty about wanting to fix your gap! You get to decide how you want to look. If it bothers you, then I think its great that you are getting it fixed. That does sound so frustrating about the schools. Here in our district, they will only go remote if they don't have enough teachers or sub...

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Thanks auto! He is! I mean to my biased eye. He also is super snuggly. He loves to lay on the bed with me and rest his head on my stomach to sleep. Maybe I will post a picture of him on my thread. Yeah for a hiking partner... Bassets have great endurance but their sniffing is out of control! We have...

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I am glad she is healing up! I don't understand dogs and their eating proclivities. Our basset loves to eat rocks. We do our best to keep him away from them but he actually digs them up! I have read how they contribute to bowel obstruction so we have to keep an eye on him.

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Thanks Jen! That was me over Christmas as well. It is nice to realize that it's ok to let my inner guard down a little and allow myself to emotionally eat when I REALLY need it and be able to come back from that and go back to eating in a way that actually feels good and is sustainable. I'm pretty s...

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Sorry about your sons birthday dinner! That is a bummer, but such a positive way to look at things. The bad moments do make the good ones better! I know what you mean about getting bored with your plan. For me, I have discovered that any attempt to switch it up doesn't work and makes me more obsesse...

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I am glad my post could help. It does seem like we are going through similar stuff. Sounds like a great idea for the community college. We have a great community college here and they are working on creating student housing in the near future which would be great! There can be a community college st...

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Sounds like your energy dynamic might be similar to my husband and I's only Im the quiet one. :) Oh my goodness! I am so sorry you went through that! That is terrible. Also where did Flowerpup find a SKEWER? I am glad she ended up being ok, but OOF on the vet bill! That is rough. I am glad she is he...

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Thank you Linda! I appreciate that! I hope you are doing OK too. <3 Yesterday I was pleasantly surprised that it wasn't too difficult to choose not to eat between or after meals. One thing I did that was different than in the past was I made sure I ate plenty at each of my 3 meals so I didn't feel p...

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I relate to what you are saying here Jen. I feel like I have noticed that too. For example with the emotional eating I have struggled with, I chose not to use willpower, and I indulged myself for... probably about 5 days. And then, yesterday I was able to pretty easily choose not to emotionally eat....

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Right there with you about the events at our Capitol. So upsetting! I didn't realize there were so many from Arizona! The one I noticed was from Arkansas, not terribly far from my corner of Arkansas. I was also not surprised. Yeah, this thing with the kids and college and grades is tough! My senior ...

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Thanks Linda! Yeah she seems to already be moving on, thank goodness! I have had a heck of a time with emotional eating this week. I have gotten way too stressed and upset over the national events of last week and the fall out. I am going to try to get a handle on it, as I haven't done emotional eat...

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That is really great that you have noticed you feel more energetic after smaller meals and so have an internal motivation rather than an external one. Sounds like the milk duds idea is working great! I have pondered adding dark chocolate to my meals on a daily basis but I am still a little torn. Goo...

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Im glad you are getting a chance to get away! It's kind of funny as I was just telling my husband yesterday about how overwhelming and intense he can be, and yes difficult to live with at times. Passionate people I think can be a bit intense to others. Is your husband more quiet and laid back? Anywa...

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Snappy Hangry husbands are hard to deal with! Mine does the same thing sometimes. Honestly until he started drinking these hard core meal replacement shakes that have like 20 grams of protein, I used to deal with it a lot more. I am glad you are having a good time in Sedona! It sounds like a PERFECT...

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My husband and I have constant conversations where we remind ourselves not to react to our teenager. I don't know how many times we have to also remind each other to not take her comments personally. It's hard but I remember when I was a teenager my parents didn't even seem like PEOPLE. It would hav...

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Oh man! Yes with everyone being home all the time, keeping the house clean feels like an impossible dream sometimes. Moody daughters are tough sometimes! I am glad you had a talk and resolved some things. That sounds like a great question to ask yourself "what will leave me feeling good?" such a nic...

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The Total Gym sounds nice! Good for you for working out with it and for sticking to 3 plates of food, especially the first week back after vacation! I know its always hard for me to get back into the taking care of myself swing after a long break.

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It does sound hard to have Rosebud going back to school in person, but I am glad she had a great day and that Doc is getting his second dose soon. Also, was it easier to have only one of the girls home or was it weird? I imagine it would be weird at first but maybe nice once you get used to it?

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Aww thanks auto! I missed you guys too! Im excited to get back into the weights as well. Jen yes! Its kind of nice to be WANTING lighter and healthier foods. Linda, thanks! I feel better with homemade meals too. Besides the fact that they usually taste better, I definitely know what you mean about f...

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I feel the same about a messy environment. It got bad during my last semester of school so this year my goal is to get a regular habit and routine of cleaning every day. Hope you have been having a good holiday!

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Those barre workouts sound great! I did ballet in my youth and I remember the barre portion of class was so intense! I also gained about 3 pounds over break. I am ok with it, but I am looking forward to getting back to eating the way I normally do. It's nice to have that structure and it actually wa...

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Going back to regular life after vacay is so hard! Sounds like maybe it is for the best for Rosebud to go in person since online was so tough. Im so glad you had such a nice visit with your mom! I know what you mean about being an introvert and enjoying the time but also being really glad to have yo...

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That would have hurt my feelings too! I do well remember the early teen years though. I agree with everyone else that this is a very natural time of arguing and challenging parent times. My almost 18-year-old has actually apologized now for how she was when she was 14 and 15 as she recognizes that s...

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Thanks Jen! The cookies turned out pretty good! Thank you Alene, I have appreciated your friendship and support as well. <3 Well, when I am on vacation I tend to stay away from computers, even this wonderful forum. I think it is really helpful for my mental state. But, break is over and I am back! I...

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Hi April! That sounds rough with the fatigue! It makes me think of when I had Mono in my twenties. I have never been so tired in my life! I know that is one of the symptoms specific to Mono though, and it took weeks to get my strength back. I hope you are feeling better today and that you get to hav...

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Glad you had a good Hannakuh and that your visit with your mom is going well! Yeah the news about CA looks pretty intense these days. I am glad to hear Doc got the vaccine and is doing well!

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Wow! I didn't realize I hadn't checked in so many days! I have been having a good weekend and week. We got all our Christmas stuff done early and have very little to do. We took the family hiking on Saturday, and did about 3.5 miles. There was no complaining, we have come so far! B: mixed berry oatm...

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Im so glad to hear that you are at a really good place with food!

Sounds like you also have figured out a good system to not feel overwhelmed. Linda, I do something similar with my bullet journal as well! I love that next week box!

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Those sugar cookies are delicous though! Sounds like you have a good plan! I totally agree with leaving the exercise off, because willpower is finite and it sounds like you have good priorities. Happy birthday to Challenger! I have used the decaf coffee with cream as an ice cream substitute pretty s...

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Hi Maggie Mae! It's great to see you again! Sorry to hear you are struggling but I think we have all been there or are there right now. I don't know HOW many times I have recommitted to No s or stayed away because I strayed from the No S principles. In fact, the reason I came back this last time is ...

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Auto, that sounds fun! I didn't realize x box had a new system out this year as well. I knew about the ps 5 but not the x box. I bet Challenger is excited to be getting it, and that sounds like a great way to celebrate. I hope you had fun with the Christmas cookies! The girls and I are going to make...

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Woohoo! Yay for Christmas Holiday! Yes nothing for it but to try again. I ended up eating chocolate last night... ahh well.

Happy early birthday to Challenger! Are you guys doing anything special for his birthday? Do you combine Christmas and his birthday?

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It is so hard to escape politics when the pandemic has become political and we are surrounded by it 24/7. I am glad your news fast is helping! That evening snacking has been getting harder for me too! The past few nights except for last night I have been grabbing a very large handful of m&m's. I am ...

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Thanks, auto! It's so annoying my subconscious doesn't realize I am not in school anymore and I have been having these crazy dreams where I am trying to get things done and figure things out and I can't do them so then I wake up. I am hoping that my brain will calm down soon. That is so sweet your h...

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Wow, April I am glad to hear that both you and your husband are recovering, but sorry to hear you were ill in the first place. I hope that you both continue to feel better.

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I know what you mean about Covid becoming scarier and all around you lately. Just today my DH found out that one of the men in his very small building at work tested positive for Covid and 3 other people he hangs out with all the time in the lunchroom also went and got tested and everyone is worried...

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Sounds like a great victory to reframe the thoughts of regret and needing to improve next time into recognizing the enjoyment of eating and not feeling guilty, so you could finish your day feeling good. That is awesome!

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Auto I am sorry you are having such a tough time. It sounds so hard to deal with. It's interesting and sad the different ways this is affecting all of us. All your concerns up there are what my husband has been saying this whole time too. He is so worried about kids and our kids and how this is affe...

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Thank you Soprano! Thank you Alene! I do feel really accomplished, but it is hard to gear down and relax so far. Jen thank you! Yes Christmas break feels like the promised land this year for sure! Thank you auto! My presentation went great! My adviser said I did a great job and she was really impres...

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I am happy to hear of your weight update! Congratulations on your new job!

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Great news! I am glad you are figuring out what works for you. Feeling good about your way of eating and not feeling like a failure is really important to long term sustainability I think. Also feeling comfortable with how you are eating and when you are eating. I am glad your experiment is going so...

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Glad you are still dragging the boys out! We still drag our family out every other weekend but every day would be so much more beneficial. I have always felt the way you describe about being out in the woods and nature as well. Maybe getting closer to our roots and feeling connected to our world?

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Wow! Congrats to Rosebud! Very exciting!

I am glad you will get to see your mom! I know its concerning but it so nice to get that connection too.

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It sounds like you have had a lot of fun! Good luck getting everything ready for the holidays! I am glad you and your husband got time to yourselves after all that busyness! I love that you still have so much fun together.

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Thank you Linda! I have been a busy bee! Im in the final stretch before graduation and the kids winter break. I am unofficially done with my internship( I have reached 120 hours) but I have been finishing up a few things off the clock because I just want to see them done. :D I have to have a final m...

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Auto thanks! I have a phone call with my adviser tomorrow and I will ask her about that, it doesn't say in the rubric. SOOOO close to finishing! I am having a hard time since I just want to be done. Patience patience. Yesterday was rough with the girls, as they all didn't want to be back at the scho...

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Congratulations on finishing your videos! Wow what an accomplishment! I know what you mean about the different teaching styles. It makes sense on a 5-minute video to start with the key point and then provide details. I can't believe it takes that long(5-12 hours)! I bet it is probably similar to oth...

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Looks like a beautiful place! I hope you enjoyed your proposalversery! That is neat that you celebrate that.

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WOW! What a great break! I spent pretty much all of Thanksgiving break off my computer and my phone and I just read books in my spare time. Of which there was much! I think I did a pretty good job with holiday eating. The only time I got really SS'y was having two pieces of pie instead of one after ...

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Wow that sounds like a serious hike! I feel bad when I graze as well. I am not sure why. Sounds like you are figuring things out! Sounds like such a fun trip and a great opportunity to be aware of vacation eating thoughts versus just listening to your body, eating what you want and following your ge...

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I made it! Thanksgiving break starts in 30 minutes for me! I can see the finish line! 2 more SQL assignments, and I revised my rough draft for my internship paper today, and I have my rough draft of my PowerPoint presentation done. I need to go in and tweak some more and then take notes on what I wa...

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That's great about Challenger being in a better mood! I notice that with my teenager after physical activity too.

Hope your family hike went well!

Also... bear meat? I have had deer meat but never bear. How was it?

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Wow! I will join in the chorus of Sedona sounds amazing! Have fun, that sounds wonderful and hopefully relaxing. I am sorry you can' t have your mom with you though.

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I know just what you mean about having the bits and pieces of your life finally together and with you making you feel more "you". It sounds like you are doing so great with the eating and body movement too!

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Lets see... past couple of days. Sunday Nov 22 2020 B: 1 waffle with syrup, 1 piece of bacon, coffee L: 3 pieces of Greek Pizza D: 1 bowl of veggie soup (kind of had my big meal in the middle of the day. I think I realized that has been part of my problem. I have a big meal in the middle of the day ...

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Thanks Soprano, I hope so! Auto, Thanks but I don't know about all that! We only go every other weekend so its not that amazing. It is good to at least have that routine though because I think the kids have become much more accepting. We typically go between 3 and 4 miles. Usually 3.5, but sometimes...

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Today I did a really good job of waiting to get hungry between meals. In order to that, I had to eat a little less breakfast and a little less lunch. I don't seem to be mentally freaking out about that yet. I do really like to eat my meal when I am hungry so hopefully I will continue to affirm eatin...

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So Challenger loves hiking right? :D Oh my goodness! It sounds like such teenager things to say. I hope that Challenger is Ok and just expressing his anger. Hopefully he will get used to it over time. When we first started doing family hikes the kids complained non stop but now they just march along...

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I should re read that book. It didn't hit the spot for me years ago, but I know they have come out with several new editions since I last read it, and I am in a completely different place on my journey than I was back then. I like the way you describe the board! I will try that next time one of my k...

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LOL 50 shades of No S! :D I would read that! I didn't start out relaxed and I think that is why I couldn't stick with No S. I remember trying this out in my early thirties and being totally strict and pass-fail. I couldn't keep it up and I left the board. I think I was also nursing at the time which...

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Auto, yes, I told my husband we absolutely had to be on the same page with this because it was going to be tough. I feel lucky that we are an "effective team"most of the time. Has anyone here seen the movie Oblivion? I always think of it when I say effective team. :D Linda, I am sorry you are in the...

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LOL I just can't help laughing at the image of Challenger out there scuffing along the hiking trail with his hoody up. The reason is that I also have a sulky teenager who skulks along with her hoody up too.

Glad today went better than yesterday!

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I agree, any exercise you can stick with is good exercise. The only motivation that works for me with weights is osteoporosis and the worry of losing bone mass.

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Sounds tough right now with the lockdowns. Intersting about the mask wearing being not allowed for certain ages. Here I see little kids wearing them sometimes, and I imagine at school as well.

Congrats on 3 Green days so far! Tommorow is Friday! Just one more day!

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I am glad you worked it out with your friend. I have a close friend who is also the polar opposite of me on the political spectrum and we typically don't talk about anything political, but Covid affects all of us and its hard not to talk about.

How did your hike with your boys go?

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Thanks Jen! I love the connection on this board too! I find it interesting how well we all seem to connect and support each other and be on similar paths. When I talk about it to my husband about it I call it my "moderate eating board." :D He knows my eating disordered past and he would be worried a...

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Sorry to see that you are in the prediabetic territory. I guess though, it's good to have that data so you can make your food choices for your best health.

Good luck with your weekly tests, I hope your numbers start heading down.

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Thanks Linda, I haven't heard of some of those authors. I am excited to check them out. I know what you mean about full IE being a little too loose. THere are a lot of good things about IE we can take to No so I think. I don't like the pass-fail aspect of No S and I have stopped thinking of it that ...

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Jen and Soprano thanks for sharing your stories and your advice. I really appreciate it and I take it to heart. You have no idea how helpful it is to hear from moms who have gone before. I talked it over with my husband and I realized he (not for the first time did I realize this) is such a control ...

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I relate Octavia. I too, have pretty much been the same size my whole life. I have managed to lose weight with some drastic temporary changes but it never lasts more than a few weeks. I look pretty average too, only now I have more middle-age softness. I really really think so much of how we feel ab...

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Thank you auto! It was so wonderful! Today I am wearing sneakers all day. I love being able to walk. I noticed that going without supportive shoes for an extended amount of time my ankle was starting to hurt. I am having a bit of trouble this week. I think we(the family) are all dragging. I feel lik...

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I know what you mean about your kids and apathy and needing to be a force to be reckoned with. I think that is a great idea to get their rooms cleaned and decorated and to have them come on your hikes! Sunshine, Vitamin D, endorphins, super excellent! Good luck! I am sorry to hear about your text fi...

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Auto, ((hugs)) *insert heart emoji here* Jen The habituation sounds so interesting! I definitely did that with Oreos and with chocolate cream pies. I used to not be able to control my eating around them and now I can, but it took a lot of eating of those particular food items. One thing I need to wo...

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Linda, since you are looking more at IE, do you have any favorite IE books? I always try to incorporate the ideas of IE into my eating and I would be interested to hear if you have any favorite resources.

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Good job with getting stuff done! I have really been struggling with motivation lately. I hope you had a great start to your week!

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Auto, Im so glad you had a good visit! I think I may have mentioned this before but my husband's parents have basically told us the same thing (minus the living will). They would rather live the rest of their life with their grandkids and family and have it possibly be shorter than live a longer lif...

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Thanks Jen! Its funny isn't it how hard it is to do that? Eat extra when we are extra hungry? Auto, I think it was a combination of the extreme low carb diet( I didn't eat much with this because we didn't have a lot of food that fit this description) plus after my procedure, I didn't have much of an...

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Have fun auto! I totally understand your fears. Fingers crossed that everyone stays healthy! I worry every time I see my dad even with social distancing that I might accidentally give him or his wife COVID, but mental health and connection to our loved ones is so important too and it sounds like it ...

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Sounds like a great gentle nutrition way of eating! I know I have already mentioned that I struggle with my inner perfectionist and food rules as well. I also feel like the three meals no snacking is the core for me. Sometimes I can manage no seconds but not always. I think eating in a sustainable, ...

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Jen, I think you are right. It is hard to not mentally resist but I know in the long run, its important to honor hunger. Auto, It was true hunger, I wasn't sure but today I woke up not hungry and I could really feel the difference in my random thoughts of a snack might be nice versus I am so hungry ...

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Hi Linda! Thanks for stopping by and updating us! Glad to hear you are doing well. I know what you mean about rules making rebellion happen. The only rules I can follow (or guidelines) are the ones that make me feel good and of course they have to be able to be changed or tossed if I am not feeling ...

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I’ve lost faith in the wisdom of running on fumes - it makes me depressed, anxious and incapacitated. Not that I necessarily want to dabble with snacking, but I think my meals need to be less far apart. I just want to feel good! I really relate to this. I agree! I just want to feel good too and und...

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Thank you Octavia! I know what you mean about being cared for. Its interesting the effect it can have. Thank you Jen and Linda! My toe is feeling better but now I am SO HUNGRY. I don't really know what the deal is. First I had the low carbness which was yuck and I lost about 5 pounds in 4 days which...

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Intersting about the schools and the mask. Our state mandated 5 days a week in-person school as an option as well as virtual but passed a mask mandate and our school district, in particular, has made mask-wearing indoors a requirement. From my understanding, not all school districts have done that. ...

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Alene yes I know what you mean about an emotional weekend. I and several members of my family felt the same way. Big relief! Sounds like you are in a great groove with your yoga! That is a wonderful feeling to really feel like you are coming back to yourself and who you are. I hope you enjoy your so...

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Hey Auto, I am sorry you are having a hard time. I know what you mean about feeling a little depressed. Its something I usually don't struggle with either. These are hard weird times. I am glad you got some videos done though. Staying positive and focusing on the good has really been helping me, alt...

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That dress is very pretty! I know what you mean about the food rules and backfiring. Will they ever go away? It's tough isn't it to always be ever so slightly grappling with them in the background. Thats the thing about food rules, they may lead to eating fewer calories in the moment, but almost alw...

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Well, at least Challenger was equal opportunity not speaking to a parent in public. :) That does sound kind of unusual. Kids are all so unique! Yep, I have been struggling with productivity too. I can do plenty just sitting here but I don't want to. I think I am nearing fall burnout. Sounds like ano...

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Thanks auto! I felt pretty brave yesterday! I hope flowerpup feels better soon. Poor baby, I remember my puppy after she got spayed, it was hard to see her feeling that bad. Thanks Soprano! I try to be positive most of the time, I think it makes life way easier and more enjoyable to live but sometim...

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Thanks April and Jen! I appreciate all your good toenail wishes! Yowch, ripping off your big toenail sounds painful! No anesthetic! Thanks auto! I appreciate the support and encouragement! So today I woke up and my toe was still hurting and it still hurt to walk after 4 days of a second-round of abx...

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Hi April! I also experimented with fasting with damaging results. I understand about the OCD trigger. Good for you for seeing that and managing to stop yourself! I think with fasting over time it becomes really easy to ignore our bodies signals and maybe for anyone who has a disordered eating past, ...

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April! Not TMI! Thank you! I am TERRIFIED of having my toenail removed. Especially the big toe. I have such a thing about nails. It's going to be hard for me and I really appreciate your story and experience of losing a nail. I am very blessed and grateful to have my supportive family. I am glad you...

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Hi oolala! I'm sorry you are struggling with feeling hungry. I hate eating when I am not hungry. It always feels harder to know when to stop. I am sure you have tried it with your walking, but exercise always makes me more hungry. I notice on the mornings I ride my bike, I actually am hungry for lun...

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Alene, yes those Seahawks get some serious fans! I am avoiding news all day today. I just can't take it. The affirmations sound like a wonderful thing to incorporate into your yoga practice. I am a big believer in the power of affirmations. Sending love back to you. I hope you have a happy and peace...

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Thanks Soprano! I hope so too. Last night I had a handful of pecans with my antibiotic and it seemed to be fine. I am feeling extremely unmotivated to do anything today. I skipped my bike ride because of my back. It's almost better but I have to be so careful with it right now. I might test out a ri...

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